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Growing up I learned what most of us learn–how to get a job and have a successful career.  And I did that very well.  And that was all just fine if all I had wanted to do was to learn the basics of living.  That is, learning to put food on the table and a roof over my head.  But if you are like me, then maybe you are not going to be satisfied with just surviving, which is what I had learned to do.  And really all people need much more than to just survive.  If you don’t believe me, you can read about Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs.

 

Really what most of us are after is more than just making money.  In fact, what most of us think is that by making money we are going to be able to get what we are really after, which essentially is happiness.  And it’s true that money is a part of that puzzle.  But, if all you learn to do is make money, then the only result you get is making money.  What we are actually after is what I call an “Irresistible Life”, which is one that helps do the following:

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-Be Abundant (have enough money for what we need and what we also want in life and the resources to support our ultimate purpose), 

-Be Healthy (feel good about our bodies and have our bodies able to function well and serve us as long as possible for the activities we need and want to do during our lifetimes)

-Be Beautiful (look and feel attractive to ourselves and to others, to live in nice places that makes us feel great to be alive, and be able to participate in the things that make us enjoy life)

 

But how can you achieve all of this if the only thing you were ever taught to do was how to make money? 

 

Decades ago, once I painfully realized that I had only been taught basic survival skills, I decided personally to study all the things I was truly after, the goals I listed above.  And it took me a very long time, but finally I learned the factors you need to get that “Irresistible Life”, not just a life of surviving or even just making money which is what led me to create this site, My Irresistible Life.  I realized that all these things should actually be taught in schools as early as middle school and then practiced and reinforced in high schools and even college, but woefully they are not.  It made me frustrated and sad that these sometimes simple ideas were never taught to me.  Sometimes they are so simple and if I knew, how they would have changed the course of my life to be that much closer, that much faster to the life I really actually want to live. So I decided it was so important for me to share what I learned because these priniciples could truly change and transform the lives of so many people. 

 

Let me give you some examples by posing some questions.

 

What if someone had taught us in school how to select a partner well and also how to function in a healthy relationship?

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-perhaps our divorce rates wouldn’t be 50%

-perhaps we could save many people, especially our own children from the financial ruin that comes from a divorce even those who have worked so hard to build a stable financial future.

-Perhaps we could learn the basics of communication that would help us to have better, more fulfilling relationships, our spouse, with our family and friends, and even boost our professional relationships leading to increased success in our careers and businesses.

 

But, of course, no one teaches that in school.

 

What if someone had taught us the basic principles of what helps keep people healthy and living longer?

 

-Perhaps we wouldn’t have so many people that have to fight chronic conditions like heart disease and diabetes, or at least they would be able to minimize the effects of those and not have to take 20 medications a day (which by the way, if you didn’t know, is very expensive)

-And perhaps we could live longer to enjoy our lives and our families, children, and even grandchildren, with less pain and suffering.

-And we might even learn to love our own bodies instead of always wanting to be everyone else.

 

But, no one teaches that in school either.

 

What if we learned the things that actually will make us happy?

 

-Perhaps we would spend more of our money on the right things that would truly make us happy and less money on things we think will make us happy, but that don't actually matter.

 

You probably didn’t see any classes on that topic in school, I bet.

 

What if we learned about which career will actually help us be successful, and start the journey to fulfilling our purpose as soon as we could?

 

-Then maybe 85% of people wouldn’t be unhappy with their jobs

-And maybe, those people could spend their money on an education that will truly serve them instead of falling into huge amounts of student debt only to end up wanting to change their career paths later in life.

 

Shouldn’t that be taught in school, if it’s trying to teach us at least basic financial survival?

 

I definitely wish I had learned all of these things so I wouldn’t have had to go through the process of learning them all firsthand.  It feels awful, thinking you followed all the rules and did everything right and then learning you were going about everything all wrong.

 

If you’re reading this and you feel like me or one of these unfortunate characters I’ve described, don’t feel so bad.  As I share, I went through every one of these hard lessons and that’s why I know from personal experience how important each of them are.  And it’s not your fault.  Your educational system has only been focused on teaching you how to survive.  But times are different now.  We need to learn more and different things in order to do more than just survive.  We have to now learn how to live, and how to live as I say, “Irresistibly!”  I promise that your life and the life of your children can only change by changing the way you think and how you process your life choices.  The programs I created are designed to teach you all those crucial things.  And I designed it for busy people.   Most of the material is not hard, and the videos are quick and easy lessons, not 3 hour sessions you will never get through.  If you want to learn and then be able to teach your children how to have a healthy, happy, irresistible life, then the faster you go through all of our programs, the faster you can apply them so you can see the changes manifest in your life.  You could do it on your own and spend money on hundreds of books, pore through thousands of articles and blogs and spend thousands of more hours reading, sifting, and piecing together this information, or you could get it here in hours to days in a simple format. And please if you are a corporate leader or educator and feel this information is important to your students or clients, then definitely contact us on how to access our corporate memberships so you can gain and provide access to this information in your schools or facilities.

 

Disclaimer:  None of the material we provide is medical advice and should not be construed as such and we make no medical claims or guarantees based on the information provided.  We are solely on a mission to teach lifestyle principles.  All medical questions or concerns should be directed to your health care provider.  We cannot also guarantee anyone’s financial success, as everyone’s individual results depend on their level of application of these principles to their life.